Overcoming Immaturity in Children

Some children lag behind others in emotional and social development. They act and think much like a much younger child and tend to play with children a few years less than their age. They may have Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), which may hamper their perception of what is acceptable for their age groups. They may simply be delayed in their maturity levels - children vary as to their social and emotional growth. There are ways and means to assist these children catch up to their own maturity level but it does take time and patience to be successful.

  1. Social Activities

    • Place your child in social activities with children her own age. Do not accommodate her immaturity by seeking out activities for younger children. Continue to surround her with older playmates and engage her in activities appropriate for her age group and she will eventually catch up to the maturity level of her peers. Become involved with school and other activities so you can monitor and assist with her progress with her peers, but do not be overbearing or hovering, as that will only add to the perception of her immaturity.

    Conversation and Communications

    • Speak to your child in language that is at her age level. Talking down to her or using baby talk will only encourage her to communicate like a younger child. If she uses language that is that of a younger individual or that is grammatically incorrect for her grade level, tactfully and gently correct her and state or demonstrate the proper way to communicate. Expose her to cultural experiences that will broaden her horizons and add new words to her ever-expanding vocabulary.

    Responsibility

    • Younger children sometimes have a certain amount of leeway in the completion of chores and schoolwork. Hold your child to the standards of her age group. If her writing level or artwork is that of a younger child, assist her in bringing it up to her required level. Show her how to finish projects and tasks that reflect her maturity. Highlight and compliment special skills or talents she may have. Some children become so engrossed in specific sports or other activities that the development of their social skills suffers. Encourage your child to pursue a variety of interests that will motivate and engage her.

    Professional Help

    • Seek professional help if necessary. Counselors, therapists, pediatricians, teachers, psychiatrists and psychologists may all have suggestions as to routines, medication or other support, which may assist your child on her path to emotional and social maturity.

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