How to Change a Child's Negative Attitude Toward School

A negative attitude toward school can have a detrimental affect on how well your child does there, as well as cause extra stress that carries over into home life and affects other family members. As a parent, you have an important role in determining the outcome of your child's educational experience. Take a proactive stance to improve your child's opinion of school, and in doing so increase her chances of scholastic success.

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      Involve yourself in your child's education to help her improve her attitude. Take advantage of volunteer opportunities, and communicate regularly with the school staff and other parents. Come to the school on a regular basis to reinforce for your child the idea that school is important. The Michigan Department of Education states that the earlier a parent becomes involved in a child's education, the greater the effects. Parental educational involvement reaps benefits such as better attendance, higher grades, less delinquent behavior, and increased motivation and self-esteem.

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      Reduce your child's school-related stress by providing homework support. Create a routine that is predictable with rules that are clear and easy to follow, such as turning the television off during homework time. Ensure that your child has a comfortable place to work that is free from distractions and stocked with supplies. Demonstrate a positive attitude toward school work, and instill in your child the belief that persistent effort gets results even if the task is challenging. Make learning relevant by showing your child connections between his schoolwork and real life; for example, the fractions he brings home for math homework are the theory behind the measuring utensils he uses in the kitchen while cooking.

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      Identify the source of your child's school-related apprehension. Ask open ended questions that encourage detailed answers. Listen without interrupting as your child speaks. Establish trust by validating your child's feelings and avoiding judgment, so that she will feel comfortable enough to confess what's bothering her. Don't worry about solving every little issue; instead, create a safe environment for your child to air her feelings and in doing so learn to figure out solutions to her problems herself.

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