How to Use Spanking as a Last Resort

Deciding how to discipline your child or toddler isn't an easy task. There are so many variables to consider and it seems like everyone has an opinion on the subject. If you want to hold off on spanking until you've run out of options, you're not alone. Many parents want to try every possible option before they spank; here are some things you can try.

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      Communicate with your child. You can curtail many problem behaviors by simply telling your child what you expect of him in certain situations. Begin by explaining to him why it's not nice to hit his brother or push his playmate. Then show him a more appropriate behavior, such as hugging or sharing a toy.

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      Distract her. If she continues with the inappropriate behavior, move her away from the activity and find something else for her to do. A change of scenery may be enough to stop the bad behavior.

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      Give him a time out. If the behavior continues, move him aside for a little while. This will give you both an opportunity to cool down and reflect. Let him sit on his own for one minute for every year of his life. Thus, a three-year-old can sit quietly for three minutes at a time before resuming play.

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      Rescind a privilege if none of the above methods work. Try taking away something that she finds important, such as a video game or a favorite toy. Consider putting the item up on the counter as a reminder of the consequences of her actions.

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