How to Change Apathy in a Child

You ask your child about his day at school and get a shoulder shrug and "I don't know" in response. You take away television privileges when he fails to complete his homework and he simply sighs and rolls his eyes. A child's apathy can be a source of endless frustration for parents. You wish your child would express feelings or opinions and instead are met with indifference. Do your best to remain calm and work to understand the source of your child's apathy.

Instructions

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      Look for the root cause of your child's apathy. Is he careless about homework? Perhaps he isn't challenged by school and finds the material boring. Is he sloppy with chores? Maybe he feels you're asking too much of him and not enough of his siblings. Your child may be apathetic because he feels your expectations for him are low or you aren't paying attention to what interests him.

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      Have an honest conversation with your child. Without making accusations, express concern over his apparent disinterest. Cite specific examples of apathetic behavior and ask your child to explain how he felt in those situations.

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      Discover your child's passions. Look around his bedroom at the books on the shelf, photos on the wall and memorabilia he's given a place of honor. Even if your child is noncommunicative, you'll be able to tell a lot by the way he organizes his room. If you notice a lot of baseball books and pictures, research sports and start a conversation. Your child will be impressed that you took the time to learn about something he values.

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      Include your child in whatever hobbies or activities you value. It's important for your child to see you show passion for something -- whether it be golf, stargazing or carpentry. Ask your child for help with hobbies or take him on a trip.

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      Recognize apathy in regards to discipline as a facade. According to child psychologist Dr. Ray Guarendi, some children put a lot of effort into appearing unfazed by discipline and punishment. By acting apathetic, your child may be trying to convince you that your tactics are unsuccessful so you won't repeat the same punishment in the future. The best response, according to Guarendi, is to be consistent and calm. Let your child know that he must be accountable for his actions.

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