Why Positive Role Model Is Important for Children

It seems obvious that a positive role model is a good thing, but have you ever stopped and wondered why? What are the true benefits and why is it important to make a concentrated effort to find or to be that role model for your child?

  1. Modeling

    • Modeling is a method of learning behaviors by simulating others. Imitation may be the highest form of flattery, but it̵7;s still modeling, and we all have done it to one extent or another. It̵7;s the most basic mode of learning what it means to be a man, woman or child.

    Potential

    • Dr. Kristine Conditt, a psychologist practicing in Cedar Falls, Iowa, explains: ̶0;A positive role model can give us an example of our potential. They point out what is good about us̵1;our strengths and abilities̵1;and affirm our dreams for who we could be. They inspire us to be more than we are now and to be the best me I can be.̶1;

    Research

    • In a study done for Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine, doctors found the following result: ̶0;Having a role model, particularly an individual known to the adolescent, was also associated with higher self-esteem and higher grades.̶1;

    The Reward

    • Conditt concurs: ̶0;It̵7;s easy for kids to get swayed by so many influences in our society, but having a good role model who they think is cool or who thinks they are cool, makes it easier to avoid the unhealthy influences and stay focused on what they could be.̶1;

    Parents As Role Models

    • According to "The Handbook of Health Behavior Research," by David S. Gochman, warm, nurturing mothers who served as a positive role model to their children had more independent children in areas of hygiene, nutrition, and good sleep habits than other children.

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