How to Tell My Son That I Love Him

Being a parent is often considered one of the most daunting and joyous experiences of a person's lifetime. Rearing a child properly can come with many different challenges, from discipline, peer pressure, education, finances and much more. With the daily grind and hectic lifestyle of most, it can be difficult to find the time for a parent to look a son in the eye and say, "I love you."

Instructions

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      Pay attention to your son. It is very common for children to feel neglected, and perhaps unloved, by their parents due to a lack of attention. If you come home exhausted from work and don't have time to hear about something your son did or created, it can really sting the child. Make a special effort to develop and show a keen interest in your son's passions, whether they are for school or recreation. This is one way to make your son know that he is truly loved and appreciated.

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      Spend some one-on-one time together. This is especially relevant if your son is not an only child. Although having siblings is kind of like having built-in best friends, it can also take away some personal time spent between a parent and a child. Go out of your way to do something alone with your son. Take a hiking trip together in the Poconos. Have dinner alone together on a Saturday afternoon, then follow it with a movie. Go the extra mile.

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      Point out your son's good qualities. Parents tend to spend a significant portion of time pointing out what they dislike about their children, generally with the good intention of being constructive. However, the child may think the parent has nothing positive to say about him. Think about what you appreciate and like about your son, whether it is his excellent guitar skills, strong interest in world and political issues or good grades in mathematics. Point out his positives and encourage them. This will make him feel noticed and loved.

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      Do not be afraid to look him in the eye and say, "I love you." Although the son might feel embarrassed and look away for a second, the statement surely will resonate in his heart for years to come. Be sincere and honest and keep your tone firm and controlled.

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