An ADD Checklist for Parents

ADD, or Attention Deficit Disorder, is a genetic condition affecting the brain, and is one of the most common childhood disorders. As a parent, it is important to understand ADD and how you can help your child manage the condition to successfully cope with the demands of life. Edward (Ned) Hallowell, MD, an ADD/ADHD specialist, sees the condition as an asset, not a disability. He describes having ADD as "like having a powerful racecar for a brain, but with bicycle brakes. Treating ADD is like strengthening your brakes."

  1. Symptoms

    • Symptoms to watch for in your child include being fidgety and forgetful, losing things often, interrupting others, being easily distracted, talking excessively, seemingly not listening, having difficulty following instructions, impulsiveness and getting frustrated easily. Although many children often exhibit these behaviors, it is important to watch for repeated behavior over time and whether the child exhibits more than one of the above behaviors.

    Diagnosis

    • If you suspect your child may have ADD, it is important for him to be evaluated by a professional. There is not a test you can take to diagnose ADD; the diagnosis comes from several evaluations which include other problems like learning disabilities, anxiety, stress, reaction to a single incident, depression or other genetic illnesses. There are two different types of ADD: the predominantly inattentive type and the predominately hyperactive-impulsive type. There is also a combined type, where the child is both inattentive and hyperactive.

    Causes

    • There is no kown cause of ADD, but genetics are often linked. Other possible causes that are currently under study include brain injuries, exposure to hazardous substances and environments, drug use during pregnancy, low birth weight and premature babies. ADD is not caused by sugar, television, bad parenting or poverty, though these may increase symptoms of ADD.

    Treatment

    • Treatments usually consist of both medication and behavior therapy. Stimulants are the most common type of medication used for treating ADD. However, nonstimulants were introduced in 2003, and seem to have fewer side effects. Behavior therapy is also important in treating ADD. This therapy helps children learn how to focus by breaking tasks down into smaller chunks. For example; a child is given only two choices instead of many, or a consistent routine is created so the child knows exactly what to expect.

    Life with ADD

    • Parents can help their child's success by having him feel good about himself. Positive communication is vital in helping a child with ADD succeed. Parents should make sure their child has a positive connection with his home environment, school and friends. Allowing children to play and use their creativity and energy is also helpful. Recognize your child's accomplishments with praise and love and encourage others to do the same.

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