Behavioral Characteristics of a Three-Year-Old

Anger

• A 3-year-old child often exhibits anger that may seem misplaced. They're poor sports at this age and will usually get mad and cause a scene when playing games with other children or adults. It is common for a child to throw temper tantrums, hit others and not do what you ask him to do. He wants independence but is not old enough to do many things for himself and this sparks feelings of anger. These actions are not acceptable, but he is still learning the difference between "right and wrong," so be firm but supportive. Show him appropriate ways of expressing his anger.

Curiosity

• Three-year-olds are curious about everything so expect him to ask you many questions. He will want to know everything from why the sky is blue to how a TV works. Take time to answer questions and explain, to best of your abilities, how things work and why. It's also normal for a child to be sexually curious at this age and engage in exploration. Don't let this upset you but understand, it's up to you to teach him what is appropriate behavior and what is not acceptable and why.

Selfishness

• At this age, your child may exhibit selfishness. He will most likely refuse to share his favorite toy or he may believe all of the toys belong to him. He will want all of the attention from mom and dad and likely show anger when he doesn't get it. He doesn't understand the concept of sharing and why it's important, but be patient and firm. Give him special time out of your day that is just for him and show him that you must spend time with siblings and other family members, too.

Creativity

• Children at this age are very creative with amazing imaginations. Your child will color, draw and paint a number of things without even knowing what they are himself. He'll be interested in playing games, making crafts, and hearing and telling stories. Playing with imaginary friends is also normal behavior at this age and usually is not reason for parents to be concerned. Provide your child with the means to be creative and encourage him to express himself in a healthy way.

Adventurous

• Three-year-old children are very adventurous, and the world is full of wonderful things to explore. Your child will often try things that could be dangerous. He may climb up on chairs to reach the cookie jar or ride his tricycle into the street to pretend he's driving to the store. It's hard for a child this age to understand the dangers associated with his actions. Parents must be aware of what their child is doing while giving him room to explore and try new things.