Quick & Simple Tips to Get Your Toddler Ready for Preschool

Sitting Still

• Fifteen minutes can seem like an eternity to a wiggly little body, but consistent practice will train her to settle down and stay in her seat. Each week, work up to this goal by adding a few more minutes of sitting time with help of a timer. Give your child a favorite book to read quietly while she sits in a favorite chair and use positive reinforcement to praise her when she is doing a good job with her quiet sitting time.

Following Directions

• Being able to remember and follow directions in a timely manner will help your child in preschool and also later during kindergarten. Have him practice listening to two or three instructions in a row before setting off to accomplish them. For example, ask him to take his plate to the sink, use the bathroom and then put on his coat.

Creating Boundaries

• Teach your toddler when she is allowed to have noisy free time and when she needs to be quiet and raise a hand to ask a question. Play toddler silly songs during noisy time when she can wiggle, shake and make funny noises. Train her to listen for the music to stop and tell her to use this as a signal for the start of quiet time. Reinforce that the adult is in charge, and she should raise her hand to ask questions. Make up questions for her to ask after she raises her hand to train her to wait for permission before speaking.

Increased Attention Span

• Many toddlers struggle to focus on one task for a lengthy period of time, but you can train your child to increase his attention span before he gets to preschool. Plan structured activities for your toddler so he will have something specific to do for 15-minute segments. These could include arts and crafts, free play time or reading time, for example. Have him set and check his own timer so he can be reminded of how much longer he needs to work on his project before moving onto the next.