How to Prepare a Toddler for a Newborn Sibling

The news that a new bundle of joy is coming to the family can have you feeling thrilled. It can also leave you anxious about breaking the news to your toddler. While some tots may be excited about a new baby brother or sister, feeling threatened and jealous are also common reactions to the news. While adjusting to life as a big sibling may be difficult for your toddler, there are several ways to make this transition more comfortable for everyone involved.

Things You'll Need

  • Children's books about new siblings
  • Toddler gift

Instructions

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      Discuss the pregnancy upfront with your child, letting her know that there is a baby in your stomach. Children's books on pregnancy can also familiarize her with the idea that a new baby is on the way, according to KidsHealth.org.

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      Explain what life will be like when the new baby enters the picture. Reminding your toddler that it will be a while before his new baby sister can play with him, and that you will need to frequently change her diapers and feed her is important, according to HealthyChildren.org. Letting your little one know what he can expect can help him prepare for and adjust to the change.

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      Give your toddler exposure to things related to baby. Allowing her to pick out items for the nursery can help her feel special. Visiting others who have babies can also help your child get acquainted with what life will be like in the future.

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      Reassure your toddler that his new role in the family is still special, which promotes positive feelings. While your child may be fetching diapers instead of being the sole recipient of your attention, let him know that his baby sibling will look up to and admire him because of it.

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      Encourage relations between your child and other members of the family. When baby arrives, you will have less time to devote to your older child. Getting friends, family and your partner to spend more time with her before baby arrives can not only bring you relief, but it can also help your child feel less threatened by the new baby, according to HealthyChildren.org

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      Present your older child with a gift from the baby to prepare your toddler for the new arrival. When receiving gifts at a baby shower, let your toddler open smaller gifts intended for the baby so she feels included.

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