Parental Influence on Toddlers

As the parent of a toddler, your daily life revolves around your little one, who relies on your for everything -- food, entertainment, education and nurturing. However, you do more than just provide your toddler with basic needs -- and occasional wants. You also serve as an influential force in your toddler's life, and your language, behavior and attitude toward your toddler can have a significant impact on her growth and development. Understand how you can influence the child -- and eventually adult -- that your toddler becomes.

  1. Personality Development

    • As your toddler's major influence, you have the potential to help shape your little one's personality. Your toddler picks up on your personality, talents and character, according to Jerome Kagan, PhD, in an article for "Pediatrics," the official journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics. Because you are his role model, your toddler will naturally absorb traits and behaviors from you. Parents who read books and study the world instill an interest in academics and learning in their children. Thus, the lifestyles and behaviors you choose can impact your toddler's personality as he matures.

    Appropriate Behavior

    • You can also influence your toddler's behavior by setting examples and discovering teachable moments. Toddlers imitate their parents, so display appropriate behavior and actions yourself. Show your toddler how to pick up after yourself. Talk to your toddler about behaving appropriately -- discuss sharing with friends, communicating feelings and playing nicely with siblings. You have the potential to positively influence your toddler's behavior.

    Healthy Lifestyle

    • Living a healthy lifestyle can encourage your toddler to choose that same lifestyle when she grows up. The Michigan State University Extension reports that you can influence your toddler's eating habits by eating properly yourself. Eat a balanced diet -- never skipping a meal -- and your child will learn to do the same. Try new foods and offer new foods to your toddler, but do not force her to eat foods she dislikes. Drink milk or water instead of soda, and have your toddler do the same. Choosing a healthy diet can have a lasting impact on your child's health.

    Socialization

    • Your toddler likely socializes and interacts with you more than anyone else. His interactions during these years can develop his socialization skills. Brigham Young University reports that you can shape your child's social development in a number of ways. You can encourage language development by talking to your toddler and asking him questions. Teach him how to interact with peers by scheduling play dates and activities with other toddlers. Respond to questions promptly, showing your toddler how to engage in a conversation. Socialization at home during the toddler years can develop your child's social skills.

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