How to Minimize the Mess When Feeding Toddlers

Toddler's aren't known for their neat and tidy table etiquette. According to HealthyChildren.org, by the time your toddler is 2 years old, she can eat her three meals a day at the table with you and the rest of the family. Although toddlers are developmentally ready to self-feed and can start using basic utensils such as spoons, they don't have the fine motor sophistication to keep the mealtime mess to a minimum. With some strategic planning and simple ground rules, you can turn a tot-fueled, feeding-time tornado into a much a less powerful storm.

Things You'll Need

  • Unbreakable dishware and utensils
  • Tablecloth
  • Place mat

Instructions

    • 1

      Choose unbreakable feeding utensils and dishware. Pick shatter-proof cups, plates and bowls that won't break into pieces when your tot drops them.

    • 2

      Prepare for the mess ahead of time. Set up your toddler's feeding area -- such as her booster seat -- over a wipeable table cloth. Add a place mat -- or two -- to the table under her dishes, cups and bowls to catch the mess.

    • 3

      State the mealtime rules before the eating begins. Give your toddler one or two rules, such as "No throwing food onto the floor" or "No turning your plate upside down."

    • 4

      Identify a specific incentive, such as a sticker, for following the mealtime rules. Create a chart to hang on the kitchen or dining room wall, adding your toddler's choice of sticker for each meal that goes without a major offense.

    • 5

      Say a simple but firm "No" when your toddler throws his dishes, utensils or food.

    • 6

      Prepare the meal in a low-mess way. Create bite-sized pieces and portions that are easy to handle -- such as pasta cut into pieces.

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