What Freedoms Do Teenagers Value?

Teenagers aren't always predictable, but they often value the same freedoms. Teens don't want to be controlled or micromanaged and hold independence in high regard, often looking for ways to escape the heavy-handed supervision of their parents. They want to express autonomy by being self-reliant, but aren't always mature enough to make good decisions. Teens value the ability to self-govern their choices, relationships and behavior.

  1. Independence

    • Teenagers value independence, but want reassurance they can fall back on their parents when trouble strikes. As teens learn to think independently, drive cars, create their own schedules, pursue personal interests and hold jobs, they crave separation from their parents. They often rebel against curfews and might even experiment with alcohol, drugs and sex. However, during this transitional period leading to adulthood, parental involvement is still vitally important. Parents often remain their children's emotional and moral compass during difficult teen years, according to clinical psychologist and mother Dr. Laura Markham, writing on Aha!Parenting.com.

    Social Freedom

    • Adolescents crave social freedom so they can develop friendships and relationships outside of adult direction and restraint, says psychologist Carl Pickhardt on the "Psychology Today" website. Many teens want the social freedom to interact with peers as they wish and don't want to submit to laws, rules and parental guidelines. Even though social freedom is valued, teens have to face the negative consequences of bad relationship choices. As teens develop deeper relationships with peers -- some intimate -- they need parental support and guidance.

    Make Decisions

    • Teenagers value the freedom to make decisions, no matter how big or small. They want to choose meals, set bedtimes, organize outings, plan schedules, map out school assignments and select their own clothing. Parents can support this freedom by letting their teens make decisions on topics that aren't harmful or dangerous. Parents might allow teens to create their own grocery lists or pick out their clothing, but monitor late-night outings and supervise social events.

    Freedom of Speech

    • Teenagers want freedom of speech so they can express their views openly and honestly. For example, a 2012 Oklahoma high school student was asked to apologize for using a swear word in her graduation speech, or she wouldn't receive her diploma. She refused, according to TheAtlantic.com. Teens want to defend their causes, support controversial topics and assert their views, without adult censorship or correction. Teenagers value freedom of speech as a means to express their individuality, creativity and ideals.

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