Best Age to Have a Baby

Late Teens to Early 20s

• Young motherhood has its perks. For one thing, chances of having a complication-free pregnancy are much greater. And with more energy the younger we are, bouncing back to an active lifestyle is typically a lot easier. Being a young mom will also keep you closer in age to your child, possibly building a closer bond between you as she grows. Like any good thing, though, there are downsides. Some women wish they had waited due to the financial hardships childbirth can bring, and others feel a bit depressed at the gradual disappearance of nights out with friends. Young mothers also often tend to be more lenient with their kids, sometimes increasing a child's behavioral issues, according to some experts.

Mid-20s to Early 30s

• At this age, expectant mothers can look forward to still being close in age to their child...but not too close. College is likely over and joy comes with the new experiences that growing up brings. There aren't too many risks associated with childbirth at this time in life, but overall satisfaction with having a baby at this age tends to vary. Many women in their late 20s to early 30s are leading an active lifestyle and still enjoying a busy social life. Others, though, are starting out their lives with a spouse or partner and maybe even a couple of energetic toddlers. Depending on your circle of friends, chances are you will find fellowship with other young moms, and you will find plenty of play dates, if you choose to have a baby at this stage of your life.

Mid-30s to 42

• You're not alone if you are considering have a baby after 35. It is much more common in recent years for women to wait to have a baby until they are more financially stable and have a set career. In addition, the thought of "getting your second wind" in your 50s when your baby is off at college can also be appealing. While worries about paying for birthdays and braces might be less in the late 30s, keep in mind that added risks do come with age, such as the possibility of having a multiple pregnancy, the need for a C-section or a miscarriage. If possible, consult with your doctor prior to conceiving to ensure this time is right for you.

43 and Older

• Mothers at this stage in life are either ecstatic, shocked or both. Fertility naturally declines after 42, so giving birth can feel a lot like winning the lottery. Women in their mid-40s have had time to gain plenty of knowledge and valuable real-world experience. In addition, they are likely emotionally and financially stable, having already built a solid life for themselves or with a partner. While the decision to have a baby at this age will be more difficult due to added health risks, the end result is worth it for many late mothers.