How to Handle Teenager Rebellion
A teenager's demeanor can fluctuate from charming and sociable one day to moody and rebellious the next. If your teenager is exhibiting prolonged defiant or anti-social behavior, he may be suffering from a behavior disorder. Handling teenage rebellion can be a challenge, but parents who stay involved in their older children's lives can help them get through the often-difficult teenage years.
Instructions
Listen to your teenager. Understanding where she is coming from and what's important to her allows you to communicate effectively with her and understand the potential causes of her rebellion. Enforce house rules consistently. When teenagers know what you expect of them, they can model their behavior appropriately. Discuss morals and values with your teen. Once teenagers can distinguish between what is correct behavior and what is inappropriate behavior, they can learn how to handle their behaviors and change their ways of responding to certain situations. Maintain a little distance when your teen is in a bad mood. As long as he isn't exhibiting destructive behavior, give him some space and privacy. Establish a good relationship with your teenager's teachers so that both parents and educators are aware of the potential problem and can work together to support your child and handle the rebellion. Attend family counseling, and set up an individual appointment for your teen and the counselor. These sessions can expose the underlying causes of your teen's behavior, and he can learn ways to change his strategies for coping with emotions. Enroll in a parenting support group, or take parenting classes to learn how to give your teenager more structure and a less stressful home environment.