How to Make Decisions as a Single Parent

Making decisions as a single parent is much like making decisions as a single person. You must weight the consequences of a planned action, and decide whether it will be beneficial or detrimental. As a parent, however, you must also weigh the probable effect a particular action may have on your child. If you are a single parent because of a divorce, you may also have to consider the wishes of your ex-spouse and conditions dictated by your divorce decree.

Instructions

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      Determine who the stake-holders are in a decision. If you are a single parent on your own, you and your child or children are the major stake-holders. If grandparents, an ex-spouse or a court or legal system are involved, they must be consulted on major decisions, such as relocation or vacation plans that will impact visitation. Whether or not you are the custodial parent of your child is also a factor in such decisions.

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      Discuss major decisions with the involved stake-holders and with people you trust to give good advice. Major decisions might include taking a new job, moving to a different location, selecting childcare or developing a close relationship with another adult. If there are court-mandated directives concerning your child and your ex, you will need to observe those or get a new custodial decision if your ex is the reason for making the decision. In the latter case, you will need legal advice, so hiring a lawyer becomes part of the decision-making process.

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      Develop a routine that supports both your activities and those of your child. When dealing with the day-to-day process of living, whether or not you are the custodial parent will make a huge difference in your decisions. Young children, especially, require a great deal of care. Locate a trusted situation where you can leave your child for an hour or two, and take a break from being a parent if you are the custodial parent. If you are a non-custodial parent, make the most of your time with your child.

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