How to Tell If Your Child Is Lying to You

Raising children can be a difficult endeavor. Many parents befriend their children, becoming a buddy rather than an authority figure. Some parents are too strict with their kids, adding to conflict within the family. If you have a child that lies to you frequently, it can be especially difficult as a parent. Most everyone lies out of human nature, but learn how to tell when your child is lying to you about something.

Things You'll Need

  • A child or children
  • Good observation skills
  • Compromise
  • Common sense

Instructions

    • 1

      Pay attention to your child's behavior. If they claim one thing, but do another, it's safe to say they're lying to you. By simply minding their behavior, you can decipher a lot of information.

    • 2

      You notice your child is overly agreeable. If your child is trying to brush you off by agreeing "just to agree," you can probably tell if they're lying or not.

    • 3

      Get an alibi. If your child claims they are going over a friend's house, but you have your reservations, follow up with that friend or their parent. This is a foolproof way of determining whether your child is truthful or not.

    • 4

      Talk to your spouse or a close family member. They may have heard another story from your child, which can clear up any concerns you may be having.

    • 5

      Talk to your child. Let them know that they can come to you for anything...and can tell you anything. They will be less likely to lie if they feel they won't be criticized.

    • 6

      Take note of irregular behavior or conversation. If your child's body language changes and they answer you quickly and impersonally, you can usually tell they're fibbing.

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