How a Mother Shows Her Wisdom

Maternal Characteristics

• The wisdom of mothers has its own characteristics because women integrate different experiences and knowledge. Women have a capacity for inclusion and relatedness, and they differ from men in their ̶0;values, priorities, and assumptions,̶1; according to a doctoral research paper at Fielding Graduate University in California.

Words

• A mother shows her wisdom by articulating her beliefs and thought process. She shows contentment in her circumstances and speaks optimistically about the future. When she speaks of the plight of others she does so with tolerance and compassion, knowing she does not have all of the facts. She remains calm and rational in the face of challenges and adversity, including when she is angry with her children. She takes the time to explain to her children what they did wrong, why it was wrong and how it could affect others.

Actions

• A mother's wisdom can be seen in her daily actions and the choices she makes. A wise mother with intention. She is not impulsive and considers how every action could affect her children's well-being, happiness, confidence and sense of pride. She lives a disciplined life and avoids procrastination, showing her children what resolve looks like. Her approach to exercise and food demonstrates balance,restraint and long-term goals. She shows a commitment to personal improvement and lifelong learning.

Virtues

• Virtues can exemplify the wisdom of a mother. Children learn best from what they see, and a mother who wants to impart wisdom, ethics and morals will display the behavior she wants to see in her children. A wise mother lives by the Golden Rule and in accordance with her faith and philosophy. She is kind, fair, honest and consistent, and she apologizes for her mistakes. She authentically shows her humility, fear and doubt because she is more concerned with teaching her children than having power over them.