How to Get Your Child into Singing

Your child sings beautifully. At first you thought you were just being an overly proud parent, but friends and neighbors tell you how delightful he sounds and that he should be performing in public. Your next step would be to get him out into the singing community where he can explore his options and decide on the music path he wishes to pursue.

  1. Having What It Takes

    • Analyze your child's strengths. He can have all the talent and showmanship in the world but if he doesn't have the drive and motivation to succeed, he may not have what it takes to compete against more ambitious vocalists. Does he pass up other fun activities to sing? Can he accept criticism and perform well in front of large crowds? Is singing his passion? Does he add his own personal touches to popular songs? If the answer to these questions is a resounding "yes!"; he may well be ready to learn how to be a star performer.

    Continued Instruction

    • He may sound perfect to you, but every vocalist needs assistance to continually maintain and improve his talent. A voice teacher and coach can effectively and objectively analyze and critique his technique, give further instruction, and steer him in the most logical direction of his vocal preferences. Voice teachers also have connections to local performances and shows. If your son is truly serious about his success, he should work hard on his vocals every day without the constant prodding of parents. Enrolling him in a school that emphasizes the performing arts, especially singing, may also be a good choice if the opportunity is available.

    Finding the Best Fit

    • Decide on the type of singing he will focus on. There are so many alternatives, including Christian, pop, rock, classical and more. He should choose not just the one he is most comfortable with, but also the type that he has the most passion for. The more he enjoys singing his favorite songs, the better his performances will be. Learning how to play a musical instrument may also be beneficial -- it would broaden his expertise and he could play while he sings if he chooses an instrument such as a guitar.

    Performing for an Audience

    • Once he has made decisions on a voice instructor and the type of vocals he prefers, it is time to prove himself. The child should take every opportunity to sing in public. This will help him become relaxed and comfortable in front of crowds, and learn how to adjust his voice to different spaces and situations. Learning how to enter and exit the stage with grace and aplomb, and to introduce himself to audiences, is also important.

    Seeking an Effective Agent

    • When he achieves local notoriety, it may be time to enlist the assistance of an agent. An agent will do even more to expose him to the public eye, as well as steer him toward bigger and better performances. He will also handle the publicity and marketing of your child's talent. It is at this level that the true scope of your child's potential should become apparent.

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