How to Solve Bullying in Schools

Define clearly what bullying is, and have families sign a document at the beginning of the year that identifies the consequences of specific actions. Develop a common language regarding these discipline issues, so that a student who is caught bullying by any adult in the school faces the same repercussions.

Display a statement of the school's stand against bullying where students enter the building.

Work with young people at increasing bystander cooperation, and affirm students who intentionally bring matters to the attention of teachers. Regularly educate young people on the harm of bullying, and the effect it can have in every area of a friend's life.

Offer school-wide workshops, such as "Rachel's Challenge" and "Challenge Day," to inspire new relationships that transcend cliques. Foster positive peer pressure to get along by creating an anti-bullying week where youth are creatively rewarded for being a blessing to others. Give out goofy trophies, such as "Most helpful at holding open the door for others" or "Best water fountain button holder for others wanting a drink," at an awards ceremony at the end of the week.

Utilize extracurricular clubs to present alternative thinking that bullies might only consider through such a format. Create a series of skits that a drama team can act out, such as experiencing the same situation through different character's eyes. Invite a self-defense club to illustrate opportunities to protect yourself from others.

Redesign the layout of large areas, such as a school cafeteria or student commons, so that there is a clear line of sight between adults and young people. Move tables and vending machines into formations that minimize obstructions and maximize traffic flow. Increase adult supervision on the playground and in school buses through a volunteer team of parents. Change unstructured play into a choice of many structured activities.

Empower parents to talk about bullying with their kids by sending home discussion sheets that foster discussion on school matters. Develop anti-bullying and anti-victimization habits by guiding young people on what not to do when they are frustrated. Coach kids on ways to be kind to others, play fair and take turns to develop good relationships with their peers. Become aware of classroom social structures, including who influences others and who is typically left out.

Help kids that feel bullied to become more confident. Find athletic activities that the young person authentically enjoys, such as a personalized exercise routine or karate class that can bolster physical strength. Read from history books, the Bible or other literature to learn about ways different people confronted their opposition.