How to Discourage Kids From Kissing
A child may see kissing between adults and teenagers on the screen and in real life. With exposure to this expression of affection, a youngster might want to engage in kissing, too. If you notice a desire to kiss or if your child tries to engage peers in kissing, proceed carefully to prevent it. Your response needs careful orchestration, however, to ensure you don̵7;t create a negative reaction from your child.
Instructions
Note kissing exposure your child sees to determine whether he̵7;s seeing displays of affection. Television, movies and even real life can showcase kissing activities that might spark your child's interest, according to a guide published by the Tennessee Children̵7;s Advocacy Centers. If you discern that your child is seeing more affection than desired, control what your child watches and sees. Explain the basics of kissing to your child to help her understand what is appropriate, advises psychologist Laura Markham, with the Aha! Parenting website. You might say, ̶0;Some kinds of kissing needs to wait until you grow up. It̵7;s fine for you and me to kiss each other because we love each other very much. Other kissing between you and a friend or you and another big person isn̵7;t a good idea unless I tell you it̵7;s OK.̶1; Supervise your child whenever he̵7;s playing with other children if you think kissing or other exploration might occur. Avoid allowing children to play privately or unsupervised to ensure they engage in appropriate play. Speak with other caregivers or teachers if you fear kissing might occur between your child and other children. A teacher will probably supervise interactions and assess the situation to determine whether issues exist, according to Bettye M. Caldwell, a professor of pediatrics writing for the Fisher-Price website. If the teacher discerns a problem, discuss it to ensure the youngsters always receive adequate supervision during play.