How to Get an Uncooperative Child in a Car Seat
Car seats are nonnegotiable in terms of safety and the law, but children don't really care about that. If your child detests his car seat, it can be quite the challenge to go anywhere because you first have to wrangle him far enough into the seat to get the straps secured properly around his body. Go about this chore in a different way and you might be pleasantly surprised how easily your child will get in the car seat so you can be on your way.
Instructions
Make it a rule that you won't start the car, turn on the radio or do anything else until your child is buckled in properly. Be prepared to sit in the driver's seat for several minutes until your child realizes that you're serious. Over time, your child will get tired of this waiting game and get in his car seat the first time you ask. Let your child get into the car seat himself. If your child is particularly independent, he might like the chance to be responsible for himself by climbing into the car, settling into his seat and buckling his own straps. Always check to be sure that your child is securely strapped in before leaving, however. Make getting into the car seat enjoyable and entertaining. For example, instead of calling it a car seat, tell your child to strap into his spaceship because you're about to take off to outer space. Let your child bring a favorite toy or activity into the car with him, but tell him that he can't have the item until he's properly strapped into the car seat. Because he likely wants the item, he'll more compliant and willing to get buckled up right away. Model appropriate behavior. Make a point to show your child that you buckle your seat belt each and every time you get in the car. Remind your child that it makes you safer while you're driving and that everyone in the car is following the same rules. When your child sees everyone else buckling up, he's more likely to follow suit.