How to Discipline Pre-Teens

Are you at a lost when it comes to disciplining your children. This article will give you tips on how to discipline pre-teens. Remember these are just tips, use the methods that best fit you and your personality. But most importantly be respectful of the your children and yourself.

Things You'll Need

  • Respect for all involved.

Instructions

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      Before dispensing with punishment you should take a moment or moments to ensure that you are calm. It is neither good for you or the children if you administer punishment while you are highly upset. In this way you can protect yourself from over reacting.

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      After ensuring your calmness, you should first take the time to explain to the children that what was done was wrong. Also explain that the punishment is a result of their actions and not because you are mean or mad at them.

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      Some people may believe in corporal punishment (spanking). Before applying corporate punishment, try some non-physical disciplines, like being sent to the room, cut out the tv privileges, go to the corner for time-out.

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      If you believe in corporal punishment (spanking) make sure that it is the last resort. Make sure that the punishment matches the crime.

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      After the punishment has been dispensed, ensure that the child knows that the actions you have taken has been done to try show the child that there are some consequences to his bad actions.

      Note: Preferred actions and behaviors should be rewarded also.

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