Impulsive Behavior in a Child

Toddlers often demonstrate the impulsive behaviors of biting and hitting their friends. You may, however, wonder when these behaviors normally subside and what you can do to help your child control his impulses.

  1. Definition

    • Impulsive behaviors are actions a child makes without consideration the consequences. Some examples of impulsive behavior in children are hitting, kicking and biting others.

    Development

    • It is normal for toddlers and children under the age of 5 to act impulsively. Between 2 and 5 years old, the area of the brain that controls impulsive behavior is developing. You can work with your child to help her develop in this way. When you can predict that your child is going to act impulsively, try to explain to her what she is feeling. This will help her separate her feelings from actually acting out. Be patient with your child, and remember that children develop at different rates.

    Set Limits

    • Setting limits can decrease the amount of time your child spends getting into trouble. Create household rules. Focus on keeping your child safe and respecting others. Then make sure your he knows your expectations. When he breaks the rules, provide negative consequences, such as a time-out. Also provide positive feedback for when he behaves appropriately.

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