How to Help Children Deal With Racial Discrimination

According to the Anti-Defamation League, the population of America is becoming steadily more diverse, but the United States has struggled throughout its history with its diverse populations living together in harmony. Preparing your child for discriminatory encounters and also helping him to effectively resolve issues as they come about is key to building his confidence and creating an environment where he is comfortable and safe.

Instructions

  1. Preparing Your Child

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      Discuss race and culture with your child. According to a publication by the Warwickshire County Council in the United Kingdom, talking with your child about his life and family can help prevent and tackle discrimination. Make your child aware that his race might put him in a minority group and educate him about discrimination that might come his way as a result.

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      Help your child feel proud of his race. Let him know that you recognize and appreciate his individuality and that he should honor and accept his heritage. Read books and watch television programs that depict characters of the same race to build up his sense of self-worth.

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      Give your child the tools he will need to deal with a discriminatory circumstance before it happens. Teach him to recognize an act of discrimination and give him appropriate language to use to defend himself. Encourage him to discuss any issues or hurtful actions with you or a teacher.

    Tackling Discrimination

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      Know the warning signs that your child might be experiencing discrimination. If he is complaining of headaches or stomach aches, is afraid to go to school or withdraws from activities, encourage your child to open up to you about any discrimination he might be experiencing.

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      Listen to your child carefully before asking questions. Ask him how he would like to resolve the circumstance, and let him know that you might need to involve others to bring about resolution. Let your child know that he was brave to bring the incident to your attention and encourage him to always do so.

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      Report the incident to the school or contact the parent of the other child involved, if necessary. Keep your child abreast about the actions you are taking to bring about positive change.

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      Take action against discrimination you experience as an adult, setting an example for your child. The Anti-Defamation League states that your child should know that you have no tolerance for discrimination, even if prejudice is demonstrated by a friend or familiar adult.

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