What Causes Negative Behavior in Children?

Children's behavior is not expected to be perfect -- they are kids, after all, and they're still learning what is appropriate and inappropriate. While some negative behavior can be avoided before it even begins, other poor behavior is biological and may need therapy or medication to be controlled.

  1. Testing Their Limits

    • Many children act out because they are still trying to learn what they can and cannot do and they need to test parents and caregivers to see what their limits are. The best way to handle this type of behavior is to either ignore it or punish it immediately. Time-outs or taking away privileges often work as punishments. Address what the child did wrong so she knows better next time, but never tell her that she is bad -- only that her negative actions were inappropriate.

    Poor Diet

    • Some children react differently to food than others. A diet with too much sugar, gluten or high fructose corn syrup can cause impulsive and high-strung behavior that often leads to negative actions. Avoid these types of foods and replace them with something with more nutritional value. Populate their diets with fruits like apples, grapes and strawberries and vegetables like collard greens and spinach. Children may resist this at first, but ultimately will get used to a new way of eating.

    Traumatic Events

    • The death of a loved one, along with parents divorcing and forming new relationships, can cause a child to act out negatively to get attention. While these events cannot be avoided, curb their negative behavioral effects by allowing the child to discuss her feelings in therapy. Family therapy is usually recommended so that caregivers also can explain their feelings. When adults and children understand each other, a positive outcome is more likely.

    ADHD &Other Disorders

    • Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder is a common biological factor in poor behavior. Children with ADHD have a chemical imbalance in the brain and tend to be hyperactive, inattentive and impulsive. They may talk too much, have trouble completing a task and can't sit still when told to do so. Children with autism spectrum disorder behave similarly. They cannot control these behaviors on their own, but with the help of professional in-home therapy, a rigid routine and possibly medication, they can learn to function in a more socially acceptable manner that can improve their overall life and self-esteem.

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