Three Social Factors That Make Feeding Time More Enjoyable for an Infant

Infants generally look forward to feeding times because they enjoy the closeness with mom or dad and sleep better with a full tummy. To increase the social rewards associated with feeding time, make the environment and surroundings as enjoyable as possible. During late night hours, you might use soft lighting and whispers to encourage sleepiness or incorporate cheerful, enthusiastic music during day feedings.

  1. Eyes on Target

    • Eye contact is an important socialization technique to use during feeding times. Even if your infant is a newborn and her eyes are closed some of the time, she can peer into your eyes when she's awake and alert. Your baby will likely feel an intense connection to you when she looks into your eyes. Try to maintain a positive outlook when feeding, even if you're tired, so your eyes don't reveal weariness or frustration.

    Friendly Chatter

    • Engage in cheerful conversation during feeding times even though your dialogue only goes one way. Your baby will learn socialization by hearing your friendly tone, listening to repeated words including his name and sensing your excitement, reassurance and positive emotions. You might talk about him, his food, the dog, your intended activities for the day, other family members or why he's so special to you. In a few months, your baby will respond to your words with soft coos and warm sighs during feeding time.

    Facial Expressions

    • Facial expressions are an ideal way to help your infant learn to read non-verbal gestures. You might smile big and raise your eyebrows, pucker your lips and raise your forehead or open your mouth and eyes wide. The facial features might seem funny to you but they are entertaining for your baby. Avoid scary or scowling faces that might appear angry or unhappy. You might also invite other children or your spouse to make fun facial expressions during eating time, making it a lively and interesting time for your infant.

    Loving Touch

    • Affection, hugs, kisses, soft caresses and soothing love pats are important ways to show your baby you care. You might caress her cheek while she eats, rub her arm or leg or kiss her hand. Avoid aggressive or highly excitable affectionate responses that might distract your baby from eating. The goal is to offer loving touches that encourage her to relax, eat her food and enjoy the time together. If she starts to fall asleep, you might lightly tickle the bottom of her feet or tickle her cheek to keep her alert.

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